Top Personal Lubes for Male and Female Self Love Session and Sex

There’s nothing fun about going in dry, and the same is true when it comes to masturbation. Lube is what makes the world go ‘round 💦. You need lube that you can count on, regardless of whether you’re a man or a woman 👌.

Some lube is best when it’s skin on skin contact while others are better with toys. You need to know about the various types of lube and how they differ 🤔.

Once you know more about the lube, you can decide which one is right for you. Additionally, you may find that it’s best to have an arsenal of lubes to choose from 💁.

Oh, if only it was as easy as saying you need lube only to be met with one bottle. Nope. There are quite a few options available. You’ll need to know about the three basic types of lubricant to determine when each one should be used.  

Water-based

This lube is one of the most popular options because it can be used with solo play, partner play, and with toys. It’s compatible with all of the condom and sex toy materials. Basically, you can grab it and go.

It can dry out a bit faster than some of the other lubes. Plus, you’ll want to look at the list of ingredients. Some can be a bit harmful, especially if you have sensitive skin.

Oil-based

This lube is going to be the most natural option available. You won’t have to worry about looking at a long list of ingredients. Most people will find that they don’t have any kind of reaction to oil (but look at flavors and scents).

With this lube, it’s safe for all of your toys but not for your condoms. It might take a while for your body to get rid of the sheen. As for your bed sheets, they may never fully recover.

Now that you know about the different types of lube, you can decide which one is right based on the occasion.  

Lube for male masturbation makes it easier to stroke without chafing. Whether you’re using a hand or a toy, lube provides more excitement 💦💦.

Sliquid is a water-based lubricant that mirrors your body’s natural lubrication. Plant cellulose is used as the thickening agent to keep everything as natural as possible. It’s eco-friendly ✔️, vegan ✔️, and hypoallergenic ✔️.

Ultimately, you choose this because it’s the closest thing to natural lube. Plus, you can use it with your favorite sleeves and other toys 😎.

Liquid Silk Lube is a water-based lubricant that also works for massages. The formula uses high-quality ingredients. It’s also bio-static, so it will stop bacteria and yeast from spreading.

You can rely on this silk lube to provide you with a natural feel alone, with a partner, and with toys.

PS: My personal favorite...🤤❤️

Stroke 29 is marketed as a masturbation cream specifically for men. The formula will heat up over time, offering excitement after a few strokes. It’s also long-lasting, so there’s no need to reapply for extended sessions 👍.

Gun Oil is a silicone lubricant that can be used to stay well-oiled. Vitamin E and aloe offers moisturizing properties. The long-lasting formula is ideal for solo and partner play 🏂🔥.

It delivers the kind of slip and slide you desire, though it’s not safe with silicone toys.

ID Glide is a water-based lubricant that’s hypoallergenic🤧. You can use it on sensitive skin, including the penis and anus. It’s a long-lasting lube and pairs well with toys, too 😊👍.

Perhaps the best part is that it comes in a variety of sizes to meet your lubing needs.

Women’s lubes for masturbating are a bit different because of the pH balance of the vagina. As such, some lubes are better for women since they’re being used on the outside and the inside 😸.

Particularly because you’re going to be penetrating your vagina, either with fingers or a toy, you have to use the right stuff. Otherwise, you could end up with irritation, a yeast infection, and more 😐. Plus, you don’t want to accidentally use a lube that will break down your favorite silicone toy.

The 2 in 1 Massage & Play lube by Durex is capable of lubing you up and offering a massage gel. It ensures you don’t dry out too quickly when you’re going for a longer session 🥰.

This is the kind of lube that leaves your skin softer than when you started. The water base also means you can use your favorite toys without worry.

Sliquid makes an Organics 🍃 natural lube that is a bit thicker than your average lube. It ensures that you get the wetness that you need, especially if you tend to be on the dry side. It’s even great for sensitive skin.

The added bonus is that it’s loaded with botanical extracts for a great smell 🤗.

ID’s Millennium Lube is ideal when you’re using your fingers. Since it’s silicone-based, you have to leave any silicone toys out of it. It’s fully waterproof, though, so you can move playtime to a shower or pool 🚿😍.

Adam & Eve’s lube is water-based, making it compatible with everything: fingers, toys, and partners. The no-spill bottle ensures you won’t make a mess. It offers the slickness you desire to avoid friction ✔️.

The best part is that it’s easy to clean up ✔️ so you can have fun and move on.

Swirl is a “lickable lube” 😋 from Sliquid. The water-based lube allows you to have your fun while working with your body’s natural lube. Plus, the flavor can make it fun to mix in with oral sex.

When you’re knocking on the back door, you want a lube that is slippery and that won’t dry out quickly. There’s a lot of sensitive tissue in the anus, so you have to be cautious🤔.

Doc Johnson’s Natural Anal Lubricant is specifically designed for lubing the anus. It ensures that it’s like a slip and slide back there. After all, you want pleasure and not pain ✨🤩.

The petroleum-based lube is thick, allowing you to apply liberally. While you might make a mess on the sheets, you were going to do that anyway.

When you’re in the shower, you have to deal with water (duh) 🙃. The last thing you want, then, is a water-based lube because it defeats the purpose. Sliquid makes a Silver Luxury Silicone Lubricant that gets the job done. While you won’t want to use it with silicone toys, it’s great when you’re using your hand or even a glass dong.

Silicone will bead up in the shower, allowing you to have the lube you need without it running down the drain. You can go to town for hours without drying up under the shower head.

Organic lubes are increasingly common for the same reason organic foods are more popular. People want to know what’s in the products they’re using. Particularly with lubes that are coming into contact with your sexy spots, you have to be careful.

There are a few reasons to go organic:

• Dyes, chemicals, and fragrances can lead to a yeast infection ✔️
  
• It’s important to know what ingredients are in a lube ✔️
  
• Many organic products are also vegan ✔️
  
• They’re better for the planet ✔️
  

Basically, you don’t want anything that’s going to disrupt the pH of a vagina. Why? It leads to yeast infections 🧐.

Coconut oil is a great lube, especially for women. It has a great smell, offers plenty of lube, and it won’t wash away quickly when you’re playing in the water.

You don’t want to have sex, even when you’re on your own, without lube. It can lead to chafing, burns, and more. A bit of lube can make it easier to reach your big O without giving up because of being in pain.

As you start to buy various toys, from plugs to vibrators to sleeves, you’ll want lube, too. It’ll add to the pleasure, and some of the lube will even add a tingling sensation.

Have the kind of sexy fun you want ❤️. With a few lubes in your drawer, you’ll never be without what you need to pleasure yourself 😎🥰.