Sex is supposed to be fun and exciting 🤩. If it’s not, something’s wrong. The good news is that it doesn’t take much to spice things up 😉.


Whether you are having sex with a partner or having a solo session, there are men’s sex toys that can be added to the mix 🤘. From Fleshlights to blowjob simulators, we’ll guide you through them all so you know what your options are for enhancing your sex life.  

First! Quick Guide About the Use and Care of Sex Toys  

When you decide to take the plunge into the exciting world of male sex toys, you need to know a few different things. There are lots of materials to choose from 🤔, there are different ways to clean them, and even preferred ways to store them. Sex toys can be economical or luxurious, too, so you also have to know how much you’re willing to spend on them 🤑.


Don’t worry, though. We’re here to guide you through everything you need to know 🥳.  

Toy Materials  

Most sex toys are made out of the same materials: silicone, glass, metal, and thermoplastic elastomer (TPE). Silicone is considered to be the most popular because it’s durable and easy to clean 👌.


Glass and metal are the strongest 💪 and will hold up the longest, but they can be more expensive💰.


TPE can pick up oil and smells over time 🦨, causing you to replace your favorite toys with greater frequency.  

Cleaning & Storage  

So, you have to keep your male sex toys clean because, otherwise, ewww 😖. 

Proper lube should always be used, and a 🌊 water-based lube is your best bet. Some of the silicone and oil-based lubes will break your toys down, and you don’t want to deal with that.

Even with best lube comes the need for cleaning. Well, that, and where you’re going to be using them.

So, cleanup is made easy with some old-fashioned soap and warm water. A few toy cleaners are on the market for you to use, too. You should clean everything immediately ⌛ after use to avoid anything growing on them.

Pricing  

As for the pricing of men’s sex toys, you can spend as little (or as much) as you want. Some toys are only 💲5 while some of the highest-end sex dolls can add up to 💲💲10,000 or more after personalization.


Set your budget based on what it is that you want. Know that you’re going to pay a little more for glass and metal toys because they’re long-lasting. You’ll also pay more for top brands ⚜️. 

The good news is that you usually get what you pay for 🙀. Plus, reviews will tell you if you’re spending your money wisely or not 😏.  

FLESHLIGHTS

There’s one type of masturbator on the market that’s sure to get your attention. Fleshlights. What an odd name, very descriptive right 😉?

Fleshlights are called as such because they look like a flashlight. Instead of providing you with light, however, it’s going to provide you with a flesh-like tube for you to masturbate into. Yeah, your tube sock just got upgraded 🤩.

Fleshlights might look intimidating, but they’re easier to use than you might think. Add a bit of water-based lubricant to the opening. Then, insert your penis. It’s really that easy.

Depending on the models, you may have a vacuum effect. There are also different types of fleshlights to determine the kind of opening you want. Some are tighter than others, giving you varying degrees of pleasure 🤤.  

How To Choose The Right Fleshlight ?

Fleshlight brand masturbators ensure quality because they’re the inventors. However, with so many popular options, you have to look at the different options. You can find ones that offer portability and even ones that can take care of the well-endowed.

Design and texture are everything when you’re talking about a fleshlight. Do you want to insert your penis into a mouth? A vagina? An anus? 😈 There’s something for everyone, so this is going to be a lot like customizing a burger at the drive-thru. You get it your way 😎

Once you’ve chosen your opening, there are different nubs, textures, and ribs to really rev up the sensations.


You’ll fit in just fine. The sizing is focused more on the packability and portability. Yes, you can find one to put in your luggage, your backpack, or even your back pocket 🤟.

As for the price, they’ll typically run between  💲50 and  💲100.

Fleshlight by Stoya Destroya


The Stoya Destroya Fleshlight is one of the hottest male masturbators. As a well-rated male toy, it has an advanced design that resembles erotic star Stoya's real vagina. With an exact replica, it will be as if you’re penetrating the nymph each and every time you use the toy. From the shape of her labia to the inside of the vaginal canal, it will feel so real.  

Top features:

PROS: tight passage provides stimulation, works well with lube

CONS:  cleaning can be a challenge, the final few inches are a little tight

POCKET PUSSIES

Oh, the pocket pussies 👏. Essentially, it’s any masturbator that you can slide your penis into. Fleshlights fall into this category, but there are many more that you can find, too. Countless companies make pocket pussies, giving you the vagina-shaped toys you can have so much fun with 😜.


Using a pocket pussy is easy because it’s just like playing with the real thing. Lube it up, slide your penis inside, and go to town 😉. You can thrust in and out as hard as you want without hearing any whining, either. If you really want to spice things up, heat the pocket pussy in warm water for a few minutes. It will feel more like warm flesh, allowing you to enjoy masturbation a lot more.

Although the pocket pussy implies that the masturbator is shaped like a vagina, this isn’t always the case. Some will have other mounts and options for you. You may like the idea of penetrating a vagina but changing it up with a mouth or an anus from time to time can be a thrill 😏.  

Choosing the Right Pocket Pussy

When you’re shopping for a pocket pussy, you have to decide on the style, the shape, and whether you want one orifice or access to several. There are also soft and hard shell designs, providing you with the ability to feel like you’re holding onto real flesh as you hit home 😈.


Start with the opening you want. Then, consider whether you want nubs and ribbing to add to the stimuli 🤔. There are plenty of colors and styles, too, so don’t think you have to go for a basic masturbator.

As for the price, you’d be surprised by how cheap many of them are. You can find a good one for well under 💲100. If you do want to spend a bit more, you can get ones with some added bells and whistles. Some can even mount to the floor or the 🚿 wall for a more enticing masturbation session.

Zemalia Dual Pocket Pussy 


There’s something really cool about what Zemalia created with the Dual Pocket Pussy. It’s a 2-in-1, so you get access to a vagina and a mouth. This allows you to get vaginal and oral penetration without having to reach for a second toy. The flexible TPE gives you plenty of grip, too.  

Top features:

PROS: two holes, easy to clean, affordable

CONS:  slight smell of plastic, lube can drip out the other end

ONAHOLE 

Do you know Japanese trends that are almost too weird to be real... Onahole 🤪. This is a male masturbator on a completely different level. There’s more of a sex doll feel to it thanks to the Asian flair. You’re able to find all sorts of styles and designs to fit your personal preferences.


It’s all a matter of how real of an experience you’re looking for. With an onahole, you will certainly have a bit more to hold onto 😧. It’s part of its appeal.

An onahole is pretty self-explanatory when it comes to using it 🤓. There’s a hole designed for you to insert your penis 🍆. Lube it up before you go in, and be as gentle or as rough as you desire 😫.

There are some disposable onaholes as well as disposable inner sleeves. It can provide you with self-lubricating masturbators. Plus, you can find ones that offer the textures you desire 🧐.  

Choosing the Right Onahole  

Masturbation is a sexual act, so your onahole should be about aesthetic and function. After all, you want to like what you’re about to masturbate into. It adds to the overall experience 🤤.

You’re going to find your traditional vaginal, anal, and oral models. However, the design of an onahole is the whole reason you opt for this kind of male masturbator.

The designs can look like anime porn stars, alien octopuses 👽, demons, and more octopuses 😐. It allows you to run wild with your imagination. Give into your most carnal desires🙃.


An onahole is going to feel like you’re penetrating the real orifice. Whether that’s a vagina, a mouth, or an anus, that’s up to you.

As for the price of an onahole, it’s a pretty affordable option. You can find some of the disposable ones for about  💲10. The more realistic ones will run under  💲100. If you want a fancy one that feels as though you’re gripping the hips of a nubile Asian, you might have to spend a bit more 🤔.  

Julia + 


The Japanese design of Julia + is built to resemble the AV actress Julia. The sculpted sleeve of the Onahole is shaped to her design, providing you with a scaled-down version.

There’s a bit of suction when you penetrate the hole. Plus, the design provides you with access to voluptuous breasts. It gives you something added to play with when you’re sinking in deep.  

Top features:

PROS: sleeve has realistic feel, interior and exterior has 3D design, dual-layer material offers more stimulation

CONS:   TPE material can have a plastic smell, works only with water-based lube, low weight

COCK RINGS  

Cock rings should be one of those sex toys that you always keep on hand. They’re small and powerful. When it comes to sexual stamina 🐴, it’s what keeps you erect for longer. Just feels 😌 good...

Perhaps the best part about cock rings is that they come in all shapes and sizes. It can be used when you’re alone or with a partner.

There’s just one thing you should know: never wear a cock ring for more than 30 minutes at a time. It’s so you don’t encounter serious pain or even permanent damage.🍆🤕


With a cock ring, you slip it over your erect penis. Depending on the model, they can also go over your balls. It allows you to slow the flow of blood. Don't overdo it otherwise you know the true meaning of 🔮🔮 blue balls.

Choosing the Right Cock Ring  

There are a few things you have to decide on with a cock ring 💍. Do you want it to vibrate or not? What size do you want?

While there are plenty of materials used to make cock rings, the silicone ones are the best. It’s also easy to cut in case things get too uncomfortable too fast.

To vibrate or not to vibrate 🙄. The nonvibrating ones are basic. You stay hard. End of story. The vibrating ones heighten the stimulation for both you and your partner. If you do get a vibrating cock ring, it’ll be a bit more expensive. Plus, you can find rechargeable units.

As for the size, many can be adjusted. If you’re a bit girthier than the average, consider going with a bigger ring. Stretchier models are great if you’re going around your penis and balls. 

You need some blood flow too feel good but not too much. I will say this - wider the ring is 😏 the better and more smoother it feels for me.

The pricing of cock rings can vary dramatically. Many are under  💲10. If you’re going to add vibrations, most are going to be well under  💲100.  

LELO Tor 2


The LELO Tor 2 is a vibrating cock ring that’s designed for couples. You can wear it for solo play, but the large design in the front is designed to come into contact with a partner’s body. The rechargeable design also ensures that the vibrations are ready when you are. It’s also available in two different colors (green and purple).  

Top features:

PROS: waterproof, wide ring, easy to use, pleasure settings you can adjust, vibrations can be intense, quick access to finger vibrator to finish the job on the lady side

CONS: remember to charge, one-size-fits-most design(good for most men)

PENIS PUMPS  

What’s better than your penis 😑? A bigger penis, of course. Penis pumps add to the enlargement of your penis as well as the overall stimulation.

They were originally made to help with erectile dysfunction. Now, they’re used to make your erection look more impressive. You can get harder, longer, and thicker 🔥with a few pumps. Just works.

A penis pump 🧐 is a simple tool. You place your penis inside of the pump. A vacuum forms around your penis, forcing blood into it.

Plenty of manufacturers promise that if you do this with some regularity, you can increase the size of your penis by a few inches. Is it true? The jury is still out 🙉. 

If you really want to add to a play session, combine the penis pump with a cock ring. You’ll have an erection you can be truly proud of 👌👌.  

Choosing the Right Penis Pump 

You don’t want just any penis pump 👑. It’s better to spend a bit more money to ensure your erection is safe inside of the vacuum.

There are two different types: water and air. The water-based penis pumps are a bit more expensive, but they’re high-end and safer🤑🤑.

For the safety of your penis, be sure that there’s a quick-release valve. It will free up your appendage if things start to feel a bit... claustrophobic 😱🤣. 

All penis pumps started out as being air-based. A small pump ball or lever had to be used to create the vacuum. It was very tedious 🤠. You also risked getting too excited and causing nerve damage.

Water-based pumps are the latest and greatest. They’re easy to use. Fill them with water and seal it over your penis.

There’s one last thing to know about buying a penis pump. Size matters. Read the dimensions. Be honest 🤥 about your personal endowments. Your penis has to fit into the cylinder in its entirety with some room to spare .  

Bathmate HydroXtreme 


Intimidating thing once you first unbox it. However, it’s one of the most luxurious pumps on the market. There’s a bellows system that allows you to pump out extra water. It ensures you get a good vacuum around your penis. Can be used without water.

The Xtreme line provides a good suction on penises of even the most well-endowed. If you’re 5-11 inches long, you’re good to go. The transparent cylinder with measurements allows you to track your progress. 

Top features:

PROS: easy to use, solid design, graduated cylinder allows for keeping track of measurements, fits most penises, overall does a good job

CONS: it’s on the pricier end of the spectrum

SEX DOLLS 

Who needs a partner for sex when there’s a sex doll waiting for you? Sex dolls have come a long way since the bachelor party 🤫 inflatables of yesteryear. Many are so realistic that you could leave it 🤔on your living room sofa without having to explain yourself 💯.


The types of dolls allow you to play to your preferences. You can find female and male dolls 🦄. There are torso dolls (no arms or legs), mini dolls, and even robotic dolls. Think of the possibilities.

You can penetrate whatever it is you’re interested in 🤓. Don’t assume that a sex doll even has to look human. Let that sink in for a moment 😐.  

Choosing the Right Sex Doll 

You have to decide how much you want to spend on a sex doll and how realistic you want it to be 😊. Do you want voluptuous breasts? Soft, supple skin? Would you rather not bother with posing arms and legs 🤔?

Sex dolls are for more than just sex 💡. They can be for companionship 💙. Personalize it with the details you want. Choose the color hair, eyes, and more that you want.

Also, the sex dolls can give you access to all three holes or just one. No matter what, the sex dolls will require a bit of added care. But, they’re built to last.

The cost is going to depend on just how realistic you want your doll to be. Some of the cheaper ones on the market will be around 💲800. Some of the better ones that feel more like a real person will be closer to 💲5,000 🤑🤑. If you want full customization, access to three holes, and a lot more, prepare to spend even more.  

Real Doll 2.0 


Real Doll 2.0 is considered to be the top of the line sex doll in today’s marketplace. It’s all about customization, so you get what you want. You can choose the hair, the skin tone, and even the breast cup size. Want a tattoo on her right thigh or a nipple piercing? That can be taken care of, too. 

A steel skeleton is created, followed by a platinum-cured silicone. You get a fully posable sex doll that feels more like human flesh than you would think is possible. If you can afford it, it’s well worth the money. 

Top features:

PROS: attention to detail is amazing, it feels like the real thing, it’s life size, so many options in terms of look

CONS: they’re expensive, maintenance can be time-consuming

PROSTATE MASSAGERS 

Let’s be honest, sticking something up your butt can be fun 😇. However, it needs to be well-made.

It’s time to get over the stigma of anal play 😳💪. If you’ve never used a prostate massager, you’ve been missing out on the best male sex toy of all time😁. You can stimulate the prostate gland, often known as the male G-spot.  

Choosing the Right Prostate Massager  

A prostate massager is a fancier name for a butt plug. It’s also designed for you to play more with it as opposed to leaving it in for a while.

You insert it, it’s curved, and it will apply some pressure to your prostate 🩺. It can vibrate or not, so it’s more about what you want.

A nonvibrating massager 🤔 is just a butt plug.

Vibrating massagers can stimulate other parts of your body 👩‍⚕️. They can come in varying speeds. Some may even operate by app or remote.

If you’ve never put anything up your butt, start with a nonvibrating massager. It will allow you to get used to the sensations. Then, slowly branch out to see what else you like 😉.

Silicone and metal are the most common materials, but there are other options, too.

You will also want to consider the shape. Some will give you a sensation of fullness while others will be just long enough to put pressure on your prostate 😎.  

LELO Hugo Remote Control


Everything about the LELO Hugo Remote Control Prostate Massager will offer you pleasure. The 5.5-inch length is enough to reach your prostate while still being gentle. The remote allows you to control the pulses without a lot of hand dexterity.  

Top features:

PROS: the vibrating sensations offer added excitement, it’s easy to clean, charging is handled quickly, a partner can take over control

CONS: the insertion size can be overwhelming for beginners

BLOWJOB SIMULATORS

You can take care of a lot of your needs with just your hand 🍆✌️. When you want a blowjob, however, you need a toy. That, or you need to have a few ribs taken out for auto-fellatio.


The good news is that blowjob simulators will make it feel as though you have high-pressured lips wrapped around your penis 🍆🔥. They’re high-tech and guaranteed to show you a good time 🤩.  

Choosing the Right Blowjob Simulator  

Some of your basic manual blowjob simulators are just like a pocket pussy. 🤔 Only, instead of a pussy, you have a mouth. Some may have lips, a tongue, and even teeth.

The automatic ones 🤖 are where you can have some fun. They’ll do the stroking and squeezing so you feel as though your penis is in the hands (or mouth) of a professional.

The high-tech aspect comes in the form of connectivity. You can use Bluetooth to pair your simulator with your phone, VR experience😎, and even chatrooms. This way, a partner can control the toy for you 💯. Even if they’re on the other side of the world, you can give them control 😈.


The pricing ranges from 💲10 for a basic simulator to 💲100 or more for some of the high-end ones with connectivity.  

 Onyx + 


The Onyx + by Kiiroo doesn’t look like a sex toy at first glance, which is part of its appeal. If you leave it on the nightstand, it’s not going to be awkward for the cleaning lady or a girlfriend.

The high-end blowjob similar offers incredible connectivity features. You can control the level of sucking or you can hand the control over to someone else.  

Top features:

PROS: connect to various devices and interactive videos, USB rechargeable so it’s always ready to go, materials are body-safe, hole diameter is comfortable

CONS: pricey

Experiment with Your Sex Toys  

Perhaps George Michael 🎙️ said it best when he sang, “Sex is best when it’s one on one.” That doesn’t mean you need to have a partner. Some one on one time with a sex toy is a great way to know more about yourself 🙉. Test yourself. Push your limits. Find out what you like and what you don’t like. Having a collection of male sex toys can ensure that you’re always up for a good time. Now, all you have to do is experiment to find out what kinds of toys are going to give you the pleasure you’re after 😈.  

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